Learn Gay Tantra: 4-Month In-Person Men’s Tao Tantra Course – Fall 2026

A path to erotic awakening and real connection for gay & bi men

Most men think better sex or a new partner will finally make them feel connected.

But connection isn’t something you find.
It’s something you remember — in your body. And the amazing Tantric sex comes after….

This four-month men’s Tantra initiation is where that remembering begins.

The journey from loneliness to aliveness — from shame to strength — from desire to awakening.

Not another workshop.
Not group therapy.
Not hookup culture wrapped in incense.

This is a men’s Tantric initiation starting you on a path of growth that shifts how you experience your own sexual energy. The tantric path can shift how you live in your body, how you relate to touch, and how deeply can you trust. Most importantly, tantra can help you discover new layers of yourself and what you truly need out of life, so that your emotional and sexual connections are truly energizing and supportive.

Through personalized one-2-one sessions and a series of powerful workshops, you don’t just intellectually “learn Tantra” you start to embody Tantra in 3 short months.

You will come away with an intimate understanding of your erotic energy as a source of healing and connection, able to create encounters that leave you nourished and alive instead of tired or depleted.

The Four Initiations:
1. Masculine Erotic Embodiment: September 26
2. Dropping the Armor: October 17
3. Orgasm and Transformation: November 7
4. Sexual Energy as a Path to Real Connection: December 5

Please plan to attend all dates. You may miss up to 1 (but why would you want to?). If a rain/snow date isneeded, this will be scheduled on a date all are available.
All attendees must attend the first session to be part of the program.

Who It’s For
Men who are …
• Curious about Tantra and embodiment—no experience needed.
• Ready to move beyond shame, porn loops, or surface connection.
• Longing for brotherhood that honors both strength and tenderness.
• Seeking mentors and peers who value authenticity over performance.
• Looking to deepen their partnerships (if married) – or to meet a Tantric lover!

Younger or older, single or partnered—if you feel the pull, you belong here.

What to expect

Tantric connection: Body-and-soul connections with other brothers that invite heart, clarity, and growth.

Taoist vitality practices: Daily breath, movement, and meditation warm-ups that cultivate vitality and sexualenergy.

Inner alchemy: Practices to harmonize and balance your emotions, so that your soul can emerge andsteer.

Authentic relating: Get past surface conversation into meaningful connection with all participants.

Group support: An experience of brotherhood that invites heart, clarity, and growth.

What you’ll take home:
A new, deeper erotic life.
A more grounded ‘you’ that can let your soul and not your emotions steer.
Better health and sexual vitality.
Daily practices to continue building on your gains.
A brotherhood of men you can return to.

Facilitation Team:
Together Benji and Steve have developed a version of Tao Tantra — a synthesis integrating Tantra, Taoist Alchemy, Authentic Relating, and Men’s Work into original material that shows how words can be as intimate as touch—and how touch deepens through presence and alignment and cultivation of our inner sexual Truth.

Further information: https://www.trianglegaymenstantra.com/gay-mens-tantra-initiation-retreat

The price of $990 is for all 4 immersions/Initiations of this training series.