There is a quiet longing many of us carry — for connection that feels real, for intimacy that isn’t performative, for spaces where we don’t have to explain or shrink ourselves. The Queer Tantra Calendar exists in response to that longing. It is a curated space where a range of facilitators share events, workshops, and gatherings centred around embodiment, intimacy, and queer experience.
Rather than offering a single definition or approach, the Queer Tantra Calendar brings together diverse practices and perspectives. Each event is created and held independently by its facilitator, with its own style, intention, and structure. What connects them is a shared orientation toward conscious relating, embodied awareness, and more authentic ways of being with ourselves and others.
Many people arrive with a curiosity about reconnecting with their bodies — not as something to perform or perfect, but as something to listen to. Across the events listed on the calendar, you may encounter practices that invite attention to breath, sensation, presence, and awareness. How this is explored can vary widely depending on the facilitator and the space they create.
The calendar centres queer experiences and communities that have often been underrepresented or excluded in more traditional spaces. It offers a way to discover events where gender, sexuality, and identity are approached with openness and fluidity, rather than fixed expectations.
Some events may include elements of touch, relational practices, or guided exercises. Others may focus more on reflection, movement, or group process. Where touch is present, many facilitators work with consent-based frameworks — though specific approaches, boundaries, and agreements will always be defined by the event host. We encourage you to read each listing carefully and reach out to facilitators directly if you have questions.
Intimacy, within this context, is not limited to sexuality. It may be explored through shared attention, communication, movement, or simply being present with others. Each person’s experience will be different, and there is no expectation to engage in any particular way beyond what feels right for you.
The Queer Tantra Calendar also reflects the importance of community — offering a place to find events where you may feel seen, welcomed, and able to participate at your own pace. At the same time, it is not a substitute for professional, therapeutic, or medical support, and participation in any event is a personal choice.
You don’t need prior experience to explore what’s listed here. You’re welcome to browse, take your time, and notice what resonates. If something sparks your interest, you might choose to learn more, reach out, or attend — always in a way that feels informed and aligned with your own needs and boundaries.
If there is curiosity, that is enough.
And if there is a longing — for connection, for embodiment, for a sense of belonging — the Queer Tantra Calendar offers a place to begin exploring what might be available to you..